Saturday, February 26, 2011

Let Us Eat Cake

Hi Family & Friends!

Get comfy - it's yet another long post:)

We started the month of February out with a Very Wet Man City football match. The running joke around Manchester is that if you're a local, you cheer for Manchester City and if you're a tourist, you follow Man United - of course, there are locals who are Man U fans, but there are definite pockets of supporters of one or the other and New Mills is mostly Man City fans - so when in New Mills... It was Mark's second match (he went with friend, Andy, to one in December) and liked the first row seats he had so much he got the same ones again. The only problem was the rain was just pounding down and the first 15 rows are not covered so we got absolutely soaked! We brought a poncho and used it like a blanket on us and the kids, but by the end of it we were all soggy. The kids were real good about it - they're pretty used to the rain by now, and as long as they have chips to eat, they're fine. The match was great - 3-nil against West Brom and the quality of play was superb - way, WAY better than the MLS league. Tevez was fantastic.

It's not as easy to purchase tickets to EPL matches as it is to get tickets in North America (even Leafs tickets!) For most teams, you must first have a fan membership (some teams charge for this - Man City is free). Then, depending on the team, you can only get membership if you have been to a number of games (like with another member). And again, depending on the team and who they are playing, you have to have gone to a certain number of previous matches in order to buy tickets - for Liverpool v Man United, you have to have gone to 4 matches in the past year. We're working on going to both Man U and Liverpool matches, but we may not be able to swing it. Thomas Cook sell match 'holidays' and we may do this for a game.

Mark hired (rented) an Alpha Romeo and couldn't stop talking about how awesome it was. It wasn't a crazy expensive one - in the same class as a Ford Focus. There are lots of great smaller car models here that aren't available in Canada even though they are made by the same manufacturer and this car falls into that category. He was really careful with it and took out extra insurance!

We enjoyed a short 'n sweet visit from Gramma Barb and Grampa Eric who stayed with us for 2 nights during the second week in February. Mark was working and Liam was at Nursery school in the afternoons so it was mostly up to Krystal and Gemma to be the hostesses with the mostesses. The weather was lovely for them and we were able to do lots of walking (mostly into town for Nursery drop-off and pick-up) but nevertheless, they got a taste for the Peak District and all the hills! Liam had been desperate for birthday cake so we made one for Gramma & Grampa whose birthdays are close enough. (This was Cake #1) We visited the New Mills Heritage Centre and Gallery, and walked along the Torrs trail and Millennium Bridge. We had dinner at the Pack Horse Inn and used our torches (flashlights) to walk home in the dark along the country road (yes, a bit 'alarming' at times, particularly with the pram). They also sampled the fish 'n chips from the local chippy, the Crispy Cod. They didn't arrive empty handed - we requested another Tim Horton's tin as we just ran out of our stash. BTW - the Coarse grind is way better than the Fine when using a French Press coffee maker and also tastes better than Manchester Airport Terminal 2 Spar Machine Tim Horton's. We'll meet up with Barb and Eric again in March for dinner in Manchester and a day out in York after they return from their trip to Africa.

It's been spectacular to see real Spring in February! Bulbs are popping up from the ground, buds are appearing on trees and shrubs, and the grass is green! The temperature averages about 10C for most days, although it can feel warmer in the sunshine and cooler with the wind.

Valentine's Day was full of cupcakes (this was Cake #2), family Valentine exchange (they didn't do one at nursery), flowers and chocolate for Mummy and English chocolate bars for Daddy (Flake, Double Decker & Yorkie). The kids got a few small toys - Gemma got the three Tombliboos from her favourite show 'In The Night Garden' and Liam wanted some more play tools after the crazy winds here blew away some we had left in the back garden (yard) on a run for the toilet.

Liam's picking up quite an accent now from attending Nursery for almost 6wks - particularly his intonation when asking questions "Shall we go outside now?"
He's getting even more confident and conversational with us, other family members, friends, random people - it can get very funny (he will just tell any random person how old he is or that he pees in the toilet standing up now!)
He's also got a whole new crew of boys at Nursery and loves seeing all his new friends in town. There is a boy 'Lukey' that also enjoys 'roaring' so that's great for Liam and he loves playing with his friend Rowan, who he first met at the Children's Centre. Liam now thinks he should know all the kids in town so he always wants to know who everyone is:) Nursery has been so great for him - the only thing he dislikes are the aprons that the teachers make all the kids wear for painting. Liam has never wanted to wear an apron (not for Cooking or Messy Play) so he just doesn't paint at Nursery. We're working on the whole apron thing. 

We're going to have to find something for Liam to do when we get back to Guelph in April before he starts school in September! We registered him for Junior Kindergarten at Rickson Ridge PS in Guelph and will go for 2 full days a week and alternating full Fridays. I was hoping the school would be on a half-day, everyday schedule to tie-into what he's doing at Nursery, but that just isn't the case.

Gemma is now 18 months and weighs 16lbs - yes, she is very little, but is gaining on her percentile line! She's maybe at 0.5th%, instead of 0.4th;) Poor thing is still in a rear-facing car seat and the more compact cars here aren't particularly conducive to that. She is now taking up to six steps on her own and is raring to go solo. She's got such a "Just Keep on Given 'er" personality - if she falls, she just gets right back up and usually falls again with a big smile.

She's also starting to get attention from boys and got her Pebbles-esque pony pulled twice in one Messy Play by two different boys! As Gemma conquers walking, she's starting to say more and more understandable words - her "hiya" is real cute and she's doing more and more sign language too (her 'Twinkle Twinkle' is killer!)

Mark's long term PE cover in Manchester is going really well. The teacher he's covering doesn't work Mondays and Mark is finding he gets work from the same school those days, keeping him extra busy. The first week of his placement he worked 5 days in one week for the first time since June! Oh, the joys of the Gap Year (what people in UK call what we're doing - it has a name here because more people do it). Mark is also picking up slang from 12-17yr olds (high school starts in year (grade) 7 and Mark doesn't teach the kids who are still in school after they've done their GCSE tests for university qualifications). His fave is:
"init": replaces "isn't it", or is just randomly said in between or at the end of sentences.

Mark turned 33 this month and we celebrated his birthday the day before with a nice walk along the Kinder reservoir (big hill near our house), pizza delivery (only our 2nd time since August!) and birthday cake (this was Cake #3). We spent his actual birthday in his old stompin' grounds of Leigh and had a yummy Sunday Roast lunch at The Gorski's, with birthday cake (this was Cake #4). No tyres were injured during this visit. Don't get the reference? See our first blog:)

I just found out that my Great-Grandmother who passed away in 1942 was born in Altrincham, Cheshire - which is right around the corner from us in Derbyshire! I was delighted to learn this and realize why I've always felt really at home here in Northern England! New Mills is right on the Derbyshire (pronounced - darbih-sher)/ Cheshire border. Cheshire has a certain prestige, much like Oakville or Lawrence Park in Toronto, and is also home to the WAGs - Wives And Girlfriends of footballers. Wayne Rooney and a slew of footballers who play in this area of Northern England live in Cheshire. Since we are so close, we get some Cheshire spill-over - even in New Mills! I mostly notice it with a few really expensive prams, mums who dress up to take their kids to Messy Play and some young wannabe WAGs . Some things just stand out in a small town. But I digress...

As our time here approaches the end, we keep thinking how much we'll really miss New Mills. Everyone has been so welcoming here and in 6 months we've really become part of the community. I love that when I walk by the butcher's or the cafe, I'll get a wave 'hello' from the shop keeper. One of the staff at the Children's Centre, Michelle, who Liam adores, asked if we were still really leaving in April and said she'll really miss us - how sweet! We're also so grateful for the local Children's Centre (I don't know how many times, I've mentioned it!). It's been so great for the kids and me and it's too bad we don't have centres like it in Ontario. With the spending cuts in Britain, our Children's Centre is not sure what the future holds as many will be forced to close, but they are hopeful as they are really busy and draw in from other villages and towns.
The next blog will be on our trip to Barcelona for half-term (yes, we were told to watch our wallets). This half-term, is very different from the one in October when Mark had only worked 5 days before! This time he actually needed a break after all the work at school and all the work on his online course:)

Photos: Facebook

Cheers,
The Nicholson Family
Things Surprisingly Easy to Do From Across the Pond
(thanks to the world wide web and a few phone calls):

  • Register Liam for Junior Kindergarten
  • Register Liam for Guelph Summer Soccer
  • Sign Mark up to be a volunteer coach for Guelph Summer Soccer
  • Respond to a Canadian Government Random Tax 'Review' (not audit) - can you believe they questioned our Toronto Daycare costs? And Liam was only part-time for the majority of 2009!
  • Get Gemma on the waiting list for Kids Ability in Guelph (for her developmental physical therapy)

Monday, February 7, 2011

A Random English Commentary

Hiya!
So this is a random blog about lots of different things noticed here that we've either meant to blog about and just forgot to or simply didn't have the space (read - last blog was a 2-parter).

One of the only good things about the New Year for those in the UK is the Royal Wedding of 'Wills and Kate' - I'm not kidding. People refer to it as 'The Wedding' as you would if someone in your own family or one of your close friends were getting married. As broadcast on the news, a start to a new year hasn't been so dismal for a long time. With the rise in the VAT (sales tax) from 17.5% to 20% (included in ticketed prices), the slashing cuts of major services and benefits they say that the next two years are to be bad for Britain, with a possible double-dip recession. The real estate market is terrible - the same homes have been up for sale and the same store fronts have been empty or 'Coming Soon' since we got here in August. There are cuts to the 'Sure Start' program which provides the funding for our Children's Centre - 250 Sure Start centres will close this year and others will operate on smaller budgets (not sure about the New Mills centre). And a pub closes every 3 days in the UK but this is also due to the smoking ban - people would rather drink for cheap and smoke at home.

There is a HUGE divide between the North and South of England. Northerners are 'hard', Southerners are 'soft'. Northerners are rough or plain and Southerners are pretty and posh. Whether you're talking about accents, food people eat, the ability to handle the weather, how the guys (or gals) play sports, whatever - there's a divide. Northerners don't like the South or the people that live there and vice-versa:) I don't know where the Midlands fit into all this? People from Birmingham just must have, and be, the best of both worlds:)

I'm glad we live in the North. I feel like we all fit in with the 'hard' Northerners. We can take the weather up here. Some people look like they are trying to show just how hard they are by not dressing appropriately though - no coat when they really should have one - this is mostly teens and youth. And hardly anyone (even adults) uses an umbrella here - they must be so used to just getting drenched!

I'm not sure who talks about 'the weather' more - Brits or Canucks? Everyone is talking about if we'll get more snow. Typically, they've gotten their 'snowmeggedan' in February so everyone is expecting more snow. Well, if it does get crizazy, I'm thankful we finally registered last month with the Canadian government's list of those travelling/living abroad - LOL :) Just in case we get totally snowed in... or flooded in.

This is crazy - when you fill out a registration or application form here (doctor, bank, NIN card (SIN card), nursery school, children's centre) you're asked to place a check next to your ethnic background (white-British, white-Irish, white-Gypsy (!), non-white British, etc.)!!!! (For any UK readers - this is seen as discriminatory in Canada and is illegal.) It seems to us 'they' really want to know if you're Irish or a Gypsy :)

The NHS have a '5 a day' campaign out for healthy eating - eat 5 servings of fruit/veg per day. The concept is at the children's centre, the nursery, on loads of food packaging (like, how many cherry tomatoes is 1 of your 5 a day) grocery signage, commercials, print ads. EVERYWHERE. It's all good, but what about the people who have their '5 a day' with a pile of deep-fried fish 'n chips, chocolate bickies (biscuits), pop and beer? I guess it's one way to combat the obesity problem here (fattest nation in Europe, but not as bad as the US and Canada). Maybe it's just the start.

The NHS also has a campaign on for the cold/flu season. They haven't adopted the sneezing/coughing into your elbow move like Toronto/Ontario - instead they think it would be easier to feel a sneeze comin', find a tissue from somewhere, sneeze into the tissue and toss it into the garbage "Catch it. Bin it. Kill it." Most people I've seen just use their hand... and not many people are regular users of hand sanitizer. There are a few crazy-Carex-moms (see 'brands' below) out here with me, but they are far and few between.

New series' (season's) of many tv shows have started here. We've been watching our faves online anyway (on undisclosed websites) but I can finally watch Oprah again! It's dated by 4 months, but I don't care, I'll take what I can get. They don't have as many commercial breaks here and it's really noticeable when watching an American show that cuts for commercial and comes back without a British commercial break. We've taken a liking to a few British shows (An Idiot Abroad, Gavin & Stacy, Come Fly With Me, to name a few). And Sky (most popular cable company) has started a new channel, SkyAtlantic, which is basically HBO and Mark is very happy he can watch the latest Entourage.

Surprising Brands that aren't here:
Purel
Tylenol
Polysporin
Lysol
Gerber
Campbell's soup just arrived as a 'new' product at Tesco! (Heinz does most of the soup here)
Cheerios et al is by Nestle - weird, eh?

The most surprising/confusing pronunciation of a common first name has got to be Sarah. Instead of Sehr-ah, it's Saw-raw. At first, we were like, Zara? Charlotte? (this one was a phone message we had to listen to over 5 times) OH - Sarah!
Some other words we just have to get our accent on for are bahnawnaw and tomahto. And we really have to pronounce proper T's - not like D's:)

We speak the same language! Why is everything called something different?
ready, set, go = ready, steady, go
ketchup = tomato sauce or tomato ketchup
(salad) dressing = sauce
baking soda = bicarbonate of soda
vanilla extract = extract of vanilla
pickles = pickled cucumber or cucumber spears with dill (pickle is a spread here - kinda like relish, but also kinda yucky)
tomato paste = tomato puree
muffin = buns, cakes, fairy cakes, muffins (big North American ones)
buns (for burgers) = muffins
hamburger = beef burger
ice cream sundae = Knickerbocker glory - I'm not even kidding, I couldn't have made that up
onesie = vest
sleeper = onesie
weaning = introducing solids (note to tommee tippee - rethink your North American packaging!) 
big mac = McRoyal
Original Chicken = chicken royale

Shopping: something I've lots of experience in but I've never seen charity shops before coming to England for the first time. Every town/city seems to have them - be it in New Mills or Manchester. New Mills is a very small town but has three different. They each sell new and used donated items. And everyone in New Mills seems to pop in.

For some reason, it is acceptable to British bank customers that it takes a bank 3-8wks to process a foreign cheque - we found this out the hard way. Mark went to our English HBSC bank when he first opened his account (his company does pay cheques through this bank) and wrote a cheque to himself from his Canadian CIBC account. When he asked what the exchange rate would be, the teller advised him he would get a call from a representative when it was known. Mark thought that was weird but went with it. A few days later, he got a letter in the post stating the exchange rate, the commission, the additional FEE and that the money would be in the account within 6-8wks! We couldn't believe it. When we called the bank, they just said that's how British banks do it! We called CIBC to put a stop on the cheque, but the money had already been taken out! So the UK bank was just holding it for weeks! We eventually got the money transferred a bit sooner after complaining about the process, but it was such a PITA! We've since found out that another bank RBS takes 3-6 wks! Citizens of the UK - this is not acceptable banking practices! Get angry!

The age kids start school here is strange: If the child's bday is from 1 Jan - 31 Aug (dates are backwards here), they start school in September when they are 5 and go into Year 1. If the child's bday is from 1 Sept - 31 Dec, they have to wait until to start school until the September after they turn 5! If they did that in Ontario, Liam would only be one grade ahead of Gemma! Nutty.

And I realize that throughout I'm using both 'Britain' and 'UK' as if they were the same. Technically, Great Britain in England, Wales and Scotland, and the UK is the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland (we think). But everyone here seems to use Britain and UK synonymously.

Well that's it for the random commentary... although, I'm sure I've forgotten something else and will have to include it next time:)

Cheers,
The Nicholson Family